The first problem, of course, is that we haven't learned to love ourselves. That's the first problem. We can only give to another what we have to give. And if we have no love over here, we can't give it over there.
Neale Donald WalschDo not dismantle the house, but look at each brick, and replace those which appear to be broken, which no longer support the structure.
Neale Donald Walsch