Often one goes for one thing and finds another
Never put anyone out of your heart.
Love everyone, serve everyone, remember God, and tell the truth.
It is not necessary to meet your guru on the physical plane. The guru is not external.
Even if a person hurts you, give him love. The worst punishment is to throw someone out of your heart... You should love everyone as God, and love each other. If you cannot love each other, you cannot achieve your goal.
Keep God in your heart like you keep money in the bank.