I think you have to accept that an artist also has a relationship with his or her art and his or her fans: you are in an open relationship whether you like it or not. Give the artist room to go into the place they create (literally or metaphorically) . And love them when they can't remember where they put their keys.
Neil GaimanI'm writing. The pages are starting to stack up. My morale is improving the more I feel like a writer.
Neil GaimanIt's not hard to own something. Or everything. You just have to know that it's yours, and then be willing to let it go.
Neil GaimanYou play your cards so close to your chest," said Shadow, "that I'm not even sure they're really cards at all.
Neil Gaiman