I think that the practice of writing every day was what made me remember that writing doesn't have anything to do with publishing books. It can be totally separate and private - a comforting thought.
Nell FreudenbergerAlice Munro is a particular kind of short story writer in that she writes long, character-driven short stories.
Nell FreudenbergerYou thought that you were the permanent part of your own experience, the net that held it all together - until you discovered that there were many selves, dissolving into one another so quickly over time that the buildings and the trees and even the pavement turned out to have more substance than you did.
Nell FreudenbergerI think the few writers who influenced me most in writing short stories are Alice Munro and Grace Paley. They're very different, and I can't do what they do, but reading them gives me hope that I'll learn something from them.
Nell FreudenbergerNovels shouldnโt aspire to answer questions, and I wouldnโt presume to offer advice about love or marriage in any case. Whatโs fascinating to me about marriage as a subject for fictionโa subject that fiction has taken on with gusto since the 19th centuryโis how unknowable other peopleโs relationships are. Even the marriages of your parents, your siblings, your closest friends always remain something of a mystery. Only in fiction can you pretend to know people completely.
Nell Freudenberger