There is no other way to guard yourself against flattery than by making men understand that telling you the truth will not offend you.
Niccolo MachiavelliTo know well the nature of the people one must be a prince, and to know well the nature of princes one must be of the people.
Niccolo MachiavelliMen are able to assist fortune but not to thwart her. They can weave her designs, but they cannot destroy them.
Niccolo MachiavelliFrom this arises the question whether it is better to be loved rather than feared, or feared rather than loved. It might perhaps be answered that we should wish to be both: but since love and fear can hardly exist together, if we must choose between them, it is far safer to be feared than loved.
Niccolo Machiavelli