Men are more ready to offend one who desires to be beloved than one who wishes to be feared.
Niccolo MachiavelliOne can generally say this about men: that they are ungrateful, fickle, simulators and deceivers, avoiders of danger, greedy for gain; and while you work for their good they are completely yours, offering you their blood, their property, their lives, and their sons when danger is far away; but when it comes nearer to you, they turn away.
Niccolo Machiavelli