Theresa, I know there's a part of you that believes you can change someone, but the reality is that you can't. You can change yourself, and Garrett can change himself, but you can't do it for him.
Nicholas SparksLoving someone and having them love you back is the most precious thing in the world. It's what made it possible for me to go on, but you don't seem to realize that. Even when love is right there in front of you, you choose to turn away from it. You're alone because you want to be.
Nicholas SparksI mean, if the relationship can't survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?
Nicholas SparksBecause it protects you. And when I jumped from the Humvee, I believed it would save me, too, in the same way you believe it will always save you.โ โNo, I donโt,โ Thibault began. โThen why, my friend, do you still carry it with you?
Nicholas Sparks