We're really all alone. We can't ever get inside another person's spirit, and see the world they do. So we are alone in that sense. The only way we have to communicate feelings is through words.
Nick NolteI never felt comfortable in real life very well. It's always been an awkward kind of thing for me and so when I hit the stage I just sensed freedom. I sensed here's a place that I can have all the experiences of life and not feel uncomfortable about it.
Nick NolteYou do come to a point where you can get your life in control a bit. But going through life, you discover these deep, dark things in yourself that you canโt run away from, so you have to learn to embrace them. I mean, the difference between a murderer and myself is only that I choose not to do it. But Iโm capable.
Nick NolteTo allow the fear to come on you and then pass through. If you keep cutting the fear off by intervening - let's say, taking a Xanax to try to cure it - you'll never understand what fear is really for. Fear is part of a survival mechanism. The way you conquer fear is to feel it all the way, and then you'll find out that there's nothing there - it's just emotion.
Nick Nolte