Kindness is better and can be more powerful than force. Kind words may unlock an iron door.
Nicky GumbelIt doesn't really matter so much what the words are I don't think - maybe if you're a real expert in prayer you could do it through silence. But I think sometimes it helps to express it and to know you're expressing it to God. Paul talked about praying with your spirit and that's basically what it is, it's expressing what you feel deep down in a language which God gives you.
Nicky GumbelThe words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
Nicky Gumbel