You can't change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it.
With our own shortcomings, we are in no position to judge anyone else. The best way to forget the faults of others is to remember our own.
Sometimes God calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage and He calms you
Until God opens the next door, praise Him in the hallway.
If the grass looks greener on the other side, it is probably astroturf.
Life is so short. Grudges are a waste of time. Laugh when you can, apologise when you should, and trust God with what you cannot change.