People move forward into the future out of the way they comprehend the past. When we don't understand something in our past, we are therefore crippled.
Norman MailerThere are four stages to marriage. First there's the affair, then there's the marriage, then children, and finally the fourth stage, without which you cannot know a woman, the divorce.
Norman MailerThe writer can grow as a person or he can shrink. ... His curiosity, his reaction to life must not diminish. The fatal thing is to shrink, to be interested in less, sympathetic to less, desiccating to the point where life itself loses its flavor, and oneโs passion for human understanding changes to weariness and distaste.
Norman Mailer