We should treat all the trivial things of life seriously, and all the serious things of life with sincere and studied triviality.
Oscar WildeAnd now, dear Mr. Worthing, I will not intrude any longer into a house of sorrow. I would merely beg you not to be too much bowed down by grief. What seem to us bitter trials are often blessings in disguise. This seems to me a blessing of an extremely obvious kind.
Oscar Wilde