Either do not attempt at all or go through with it.
Dear to girls' hearts is their own beauty.
Bear patiently with a rival.
I hate, and yet must love the thing I hate.
Minds that are ill at ease are agitated by both hope and fear.
A good disposition is a virtue in itself, and it is lasting; the burden of the years cannot depress it, and love that is founded on it endures to the end.