That you may be beloved, be amiable.
Adde, quod ingénues didicisse fideliter artes Emollit mores, nec sinit esse fervos. To be instructed in the arts, softens the manners and makes men gentle.
If you want to be loved, be lovable.
Men should not care too much for good looks; neglect is becoming.
Pride is innate in beauty, and haughtiness is the companion of the fair.
everything changes, nothing perishes