The goal of the Christian is to grow up into Christ.
My personal feeling is that oral sex is against nature.
People who hate God... take it out on innocent people.
If you go all the way back to the days just following creation, men lived nine hundred years or more.
But there's no reason why we should abdicate our foundational principles because certain groups don't believe in them. You know, no majority should surrender its deeply held beliefs to those who don't believe in anything.
The wisdom of God's Word is quite clear on believers being unequally yoked. And marrying someone who is not a Christian - who is not a daily disciple of Christ - is being unequally yoked, regardless of what their beliefs might be.