I got my style from a lot of different people, even my style of reading, even Johnny Carson inspired me.

I liked being on stage, I just didn't like the theatrical aspect of being in front of people.

I had met Michael Stipe, and he was such a kind person, and extremely understanding, so I asked him if he knew a photographer who would come to Detroit, where I lived, who would be child friendly and who would respect my home. Michael suggested Steven [ Sebring]. One day a knock came at my door, and when I opened it, there was Steven. He's been like a brother ever since.

[Steven Sebring] presence was also nice for my children, who, having just lost their father, quite naturally craved warm male attention. They gravitated to him right away.

I think its very important to not be afraid to experience joy in the middle of sorrow.

So my last image was as the first. A sleeping youth cloaked in light, who opened his eyes with a smile of recognition for someone who had never been a stranger.

I think the film [Dream of Life] is life-affirming.