In the gay world, [relationships] will always be open. There is no curbing the gay man.

I'm a dancer so anything related to dance I love to do. I also tried Zumba last week. That thing is tough! 15 minutes in I was going for a water break. It wasn't easy!

Coffee is cheap, drinks are an audition, lunch is an interview, but dinner means business; the business of romance.

If you're going to get engaged make sure you've talked to your partner about life together in the years to come.

I'd like to adopt an older child, maybe 5 years old.

I have put gay dating on the map.

Think back to yourself at age 18. I know I was mighty different than the Patti I am today. As we grow up, we grow out of our haircuts, our apartments and - often times - our romantic decisions.