Certain people, in their eagerness to construct a world no external threat can penetrate build exaggeratedly high defense againts the outside world, againts new people, new places, different experiences and leave their own world stripped bare. It is there that bitterness begins irrevocable work.
Paulo CoelhoOnly the defeated know LOVE. because it is in the realm of love that we fight our first battles - and generally lose.
Paulo Coelho