Suffering occurs when we want other people to love us in the way we imagine we want to be loved, and not in the way that love should manifest itself--free and untrammeled, guiding us with its force and driving us on.
Paulo CoelhoThe roller-coaster is my life; life is a fast, dizzying game; life is a parachute jump; itโs taking chances, falling over and getting up again; itโs mountaineering; itโs wanting to get to the very top of yourself and feeling angry and dissatisfied when you donโt manage it
Paulo Coelho