Love is joy. Don't convince yourself that suffering is a part of it.
And he never judges someone else's suffering.
In fairy tales, the princesses kiss the frogs, and the frogs become princes. In real life, the pricesses kiss princes, and the princes turn into frogs.
There is only one way to learn... It's through action.
God's decisions are always mysterious, but they are always in our favour.
Sak, pain, love are limited human experiences. and only those who know their own frontiers, those knows the life, the rest is just passing time.