If there is suffering, then it's best to accept it, because it won't go away just because you pretend it's not there. If there is joy, then it's best to accept that too, even though you're afraid it might end one day.
Paulo CoelhoWhat people regard as vanityโleaving great works, having children, acting in such a way as to prevent one's name from being forgottenโI regard as the highest expression of human dignity.
Paulo Coelho