But other people also 'invite' us to behave like victims, when they complain about the unfairness of life, for example, and ask us to agree, to offer advice, to participate. Be careful. When you join in that game you always end up losing.

What counts in a good story is the person inside. Keep it simple.

I was very happy in both my marriages. I was unfaithful and so were they, just like any other normal couple.

It is part of the human nature always to judge others very severely and,when the wind turns against us,always to find an excuse for our own misdeeds,or to blame someone else for our mistakes.

You shouldn't have asked," I said. "Love doesn't ask many questions, because if we stop to think we become fearful. It's an inexplicable fear; it's difficult even to describe it. Maybe it's the fear of being scorned, of not being accepted, or of breaking the spell. It's ridiculous, but that's the way it is. That's why you don't ask-you act. As you've said many times, you have to take risks.

We always have a tendency to see those things that do not exist and to be blind to the great lessons that are right there before our eyes.

I #‎ forgive not because I became a saint, but because I'm tired of hating.