Any time your life is at stake and you can't find even one woman to come forward and say, 'This is a good man,' your problem isn't what kind of woman THEY are. Your problem is what kind of men YOU are.

You know the Buddhists believe that sometimes when everything is in turmoil, it's because something wonderful is ready to be born and that thing is distracting you so it can have some privacy during the birthing process.

Domestic violence is the front line of the war against women.

As African-Americans, we often spend our time and energy blaming other people for the problems we see around us.

Sometimes you have to show them what they want to see in order to get them to show you who they really are.

a lot of brothers don't understand. When it comes to making love, reciprocity is everything.

You can't save a person who doesn't want to be saved. It was like Mr. Eddie always told the new gardeners: Everybody's got to kill their own snakes.