When we struggle agains our energy we reject the source of wisdom. Anger without the fixation is none other than clear-seeing wisdom. Pride without fixation is experienced as equanimity. The energy of passion when it's free of grasping is wisdom that sees all the angles.
Pema ChodronIt's not a terrible thing that we feel fear when faced with the unknown. It is part of being alive, something we all share.
Pema ChodronWe feel that we have to be right so that we can feel good... The whole right and wrong business closes us down and makes our world smaller.
Pema ChodronCompassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
Pema Chodron