We hold on to hope, and hope robs us of the present moment.
Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
It has a lot to do with developing patience, not with the check-out person so much, but with your own pain that arises, the rawness and the vulnerability, and sending some kind of warmth and love to that rawness and soreness. I think that's how we have to practice.
In order to have compassion for others, we have to have compassion for ourselves.
Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
This moving away from comfort and security, this stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted and shaky - that's called liberation.