Most of us do not take these situations as teachings. We automatically hate them. We run like crazy. We use all kinds of ways to escape - all addictions stem from this moment when we meet our edge and we just can't stand it. We feel we have to soften it, pad it with something, and we become addicted to whatever it is that seems to ease the pain.
Pema ChodronAccording to the Buddhist belief, you can go on and on indefinitely, so you see your life as just a brief moment in time.
Pema ChodronIf you ask why we meditate, I would say it's so we can become more flexible and tolerant to the present moment.
Pema ChodronThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the...mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
Pema Chodron