Tonglen practice begins to dissolve the illusion that each of us is alone with this personal suffering that no one else can understand.
Pema ChodronI can't overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
Pema ChodronInner #โ peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your #โ emotions
Pema ChodronSimply be present with your own shifting energies and with the unpredictabilit y of life as it unfolds.
Pema ChodronWhen Things Fall Apartโ and I quote โLife is a good teacher and a good friend. Things are always in transition, if we could only realize it. Nothing ever sums itself up in the way that we like to dream about. The off-center, in-between state is an ideal situation, a situation in which we don't get caught and we can open our hearts and minds beyond limit. It's a very tender, nonaggressive, open-ended state of affairs.
Pema Chodron