I have spent my whole life educating myself.
You don't go to a comedy and try to laugh. You laugh in spite of yourself. You don't just come on stage and cry. Something has pushed you to cry.
Some people will never change.
It's true, I've become one of those grumpy older women.
I don't tell everyone my life history because if everyone knows your inside-leg measurement, how can you surprise them?
People in distress behave in a stressful way. They aren't all sweetness and light. They don't behave well when they are unhappy. That's just what I've observed.