Writers, at least writers of fiction, are always full of anxiety and worry.
I don't think you have the right to shout about other people's private life.
Then I fell in love and everything went to hell.
You could not tell a story like this. A story like this you could only feel.
If you ever read one of my books I hope you'll think it looks so easy. In fact, I wrote those chapters 20 times over, and over, and over, and that if you want to write at a good level, you'll have to do that too.
I have written a memoir here and there, and that takes its own form of selfishness and courage. However, generally speaking, I have no interest in writing about my own life or intruding in the privacy of those around me.