Speakers who have grown up in the American community unconsciously know its rules about taking turns in conversations-in the same way that they know the rules of grammar and the rules about appropriate speech in various situations.
Peter FarbLanguage does not stand still. Surprisingly, despite this knowledge, most speakers are fearful of change.
Peter FarbMen in all societies possess the biological equipment to remove their hats or shoes, but it is the birth within a particular culture that decides that a Jew will keep his hat and shoes on in his place of worship, a Mohammedan will take off his shoes, and a Christian will keep his shoes on but remove his hat.
Peter FarbMarriage is simply an economic necessity, and so there are no elaborate courtship displays or marriage celebrations among the Eskimo.
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