You can't force your will on people. If you want them to act differently, you need to inspire them to change themselves

You have to be unique.

Despite their tremendous talent, (NBA players) are still, by and large, young adults, seeking validation from an authority figure, and there is no greater authority figure on a team than the coach. Needless to say, in today's warped, self-indulgent climate, too many players couldn't care less about appeasing the coach.

I played hockey in North Dakota growing up and watch a lot of that.

If you have a clear mind . . . you won't have to search for direction. Direction will come to you.

I thrive on challenges, and there is no more imposing challenge for someone in my profession than winning an NBA title.

What moves me is watching young men bond together and tap into the magic that arises when they focus with their whole heart and soul on something greater than themselves. Once you've experienced that, it's something you never forget.