When it shall please God to bring thee to man's estate, use great providence and circumspection in choosing thy wife. For from thence will spring all thy future good or evil; and it is an action of life, like unto a stratagem of war; wherein a man can err but once!
Philip SidneyWho will ever give counsel, if the counsel be judged by the event, and if it be not found wise, shall therefore be thought wicked?
Philip Sidney