If your church conveys that spirit of condescension or judgment, it's likely not a place where grace is on tap.
Philip YanceyJesus was a master of grace: he attracted sinners and moral outcasts even as he offended the religious and responsible people of his day.
Philip YanceyWhen the world asks if there is any hope, we can say absolutely! No one is exempt from tragedy or disappointment- God himself was not exempt. Jesus offered no immunity, no way out of the unfairness, but rather a way through it to the other side.
Philip Yancey