At Calvary, God accepted his own unbreakable terms of justice.
Grace means that God already loves us as much as an infinite God can possibly love.
God has, quite literally, all the time in the world for each one of us.
God loves people because of who God is, not because of who we are.
Whenever faith seems an entitlement, or a measuring rod, we cast our lots with the Pharisees and grace softly slips away.
Unless we love natural goods - sex, alcohol, food, money, success, power - in the way God intended, we become their slaves, as any addict can attest.