One of the things I found is that the things we want to say for well-intentioned motives often cause more harm than good. People don't need our words. They mainly need our presence, they need our love. And if you come in too quickly with explanations, you may do more harm than good.
Philip YanceyThe Bible never belittles human disappointment ... but it does add one key word: temporary.
Philip YanceyAll of the images of Jesus and of the kingdom are small things: be a light in the darkness.
Philip Yancey