Most good essays are conversations with yourself - not just your decided thoughts but your dilemmas.
Phillip LopateDoubt is my boon companion, the faithful St. Bernard ever at my side. Whether writing essays or just going about daily life, I am constantly second-guessing myself. My mind is filled with 'yes, buts,' 'so whats?' and other skeptical rejoinders. I am forever monitoring myself for traces of folly, insensitivity, arrogance, false humility, cruelty, stupidity, immaturity and, guess what, I keep finding examples. Age has not made me wiser, except maybe in retrospect.
Phillip LopateThe knowledge that my discriminations are skewed and not always universally desirable doesn't stop me in the least from making them.
Phillip LopateFor most of my life, I have wanted broad impact but now, at 72, I'm not so sure that's always my first priority.
Phillip Lopate