Retracing the various episodes of one's life, one is disconcerted to discover that one was not as noble as one thought oneself at the time.
Phyllis BentleyWhen one married a man, it was clear to me, one married also the sink and the stove.
Phyllis BentleyThese last years are as important as any that have gone before, nor will any other of our years vitiate or excuse them. The struggle continues.
Phyllis BentleyMy idea of marriage, as of every other partnership, ... is that each member shall contribute to it his or her personality, unrepressed and uncoerced. Thus, and only thus, we obtain the most complex synthesis possible, which may well surpass in beauty, as it surely does in interest and human value, the separate elements of such an association.
Phyllis Bentleyyour actions live after you till this globe is dissolved; they pass inevitably down as an inheritance from one generation to another. ... decency and integrity, courage and compassion, are always well worth while; they are not lost, but pass on down the generations; we are indeed the heirs of all the ages.
Phyllis Bentley