I used to think that when I grew up there wouldn't be so many rules. Back in elementary school there were rules about what entrance you used in the morning, what door you used going home, when you could talk in the library, how many paper towels you could use in the rest room, and how many drinks of water you could get during recess. And there was always somebody watching to make sure. What I'm finding out about growing older is that there are just as many rules about lots of things, but there's nobody watching.

We all have found ourselves in awkward, embarrassing situations, often brought on by ourselves - thinking we are saying something clever, for example, when it turns out to sound really mean or stupid. Those are the kind of embarrassing situations that we could have avoided. "Welcome to the human race," is about the only comfort we can give ourselves.

The Three Cs, I told myself. When you're not Comfortable with it, it's not a Compliment, it's Creepy.

It's all right to have secrets, ... as long as you don't have any secrets from yourself.

Writing, for me, is the best occupation I can think of, and there is nothing in the world I would rather do.

When you’ve found the right one - when you see him, when you’re with him - you’ll feel like you’re coming home.

An idea in the head is like a rock in the shoe; I just can't wait to get it out.