I look at Willow and she's so naughty and fiery, and I'm not going to take any of her fierceness personally - my mom took all of my behavior personally. Everything I did, she thought it was an act of rebellion against her. But it was just me being me. And that's something I want to post on every mirror in my house: This is not about you!

I think you learn more about yourself in the context of a relationship than you can outside of it.

I've learned I'm not lying by not saying anything, so I just don't say it anymore.

I'm not barbie, and im alright with that.

Sometimes it takes a tragedy to bring people together, Other times it just takes music.

I have to speak for myself. As far as videos go - casting, the artwork, everything - I'm completely hands-on. You have to be if you want your points across.

I'm very involved with PETA - People for Ethical Treatment of Animals - and Greenpeace and a lot of women's shelter and clothing giveaways.