Reformed theology does NOT teach that God brings the ELECT kicking and screaming, against their will, into His kingdom. It teaches that God so-works in the hearts of the Elect as to make them willing and pleased to come to Christ. They come to Christ because they want to. They want to because God has created in their hearts a desire for Christ.
R. C. SproulTo know that God knows everything about me and yet loves me is indeed my ultimate consolation.
R. C. SproulThe issue of faith is not so much whether we believe in God, but whether we believe the God we believe in. (p.35)
R. C. Sproul