Reformed theology does NOT teach that God brings the ELECT kicking and screaming, against their will, into His kingdom. It teaches that God so-works in the hearts of the Elect as to make them willing and pleased to come to Christ. They come to Christ because they want to. They want to because God has created in their hearts a desire for Christ.
R. C. SproulJust as the normative standard for the good and for the true is God, so the ultimate standard of beauty is God.
R. C. SproulWhy would the disciples invent a God whose holiness was more terrifying than the forces of nature that provoked them to invent a god in the first place?
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