I started out writing largely about my own sex life, but I always tried to bring that around to the bigger picture, and how I was or wasn't in sync with the rest of the culture. And I think people appreciated that I was frank and honest about sex, but also political.

I want my work to be as inclusive as possible, because sex isn't just for some selected group of people, it's for everyone, and I'm open to reading about and learning from all kinds of folks.

I'm one of those always busy type of people, so when there's a lull, I find something to fill it.

To me an anthology gives meaning to the phrase, "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts." Even if those individual parts are really f-ing hot.

Do whatever you want, and don't worry about what everyone else is into.

I like sex writing that makes me think, makes me cringe, makes me angry, makes me look at it in a new way.

At the end of the day, no one knows everything about sex, we all have things we can learn.