Perhaps then, some day far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.
Rainer Maria RilkeDon't be too quick to draw conclusions from what happens to you; simply let it happen. Otherwise it will be too easy for you to look with blame... at your past, which naturally has a share with everything that now meets you.
Rainer Maria RilkeNever has grief been possessed, never has love been learned, and what removes us in death is not revealed.
Rainer Maria RilkeIt is possible I am pushing through solid rock, like the vein of ore encased, alone. I am such a long way in I can see no way through and no space. Everything is close to my face and everything close to my face is stone. I don't have much knowledge yet in grief, so this darkness makes me feel small. You, be the Master; Make yourself fierce; break in. And then your great transforming will happen to me And my great grief cry will happen to you.
Rainer Maria Rilke