The whole effort of a Jesus or a Buddha or a Bodhidharma is nothing but how to undo that which society has done to you.
God is your very being. So the first thing is, don't think about enlightenment as a goal.
Transcendence of sex is a totally different phenomenon from the suppression of it. But suppression can give you the feeling that you have transcended.
To transform breakdowns into breakthroughs is the whole function of a master.
This is the secret, THE secret ... De-automatize.
Enlightenment is finding that there is nothing to find. Enlightenment is to come to know that there is nowhere to go.