Don't choose. Accept life as it is in its totality.
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.
Let this become your key - next time when anger comes, just watch it. Don't say.
Only those persons who have lived, really lived, are ready, welcoming, receptive, thankful to death. Then death is not the enemy. Then death becomes the fulfillment.
No meditation, no life. Know meditation, know life.
Love is not manageable, it is simply something that happens, and the moment you try to manage it everything misfire.