If I fulfill YOUR expectations, how am I going to transform you? I have to DESTROY your expectations. I have to destroy the very mind that creates those expectations. If you come to me, never come with expectations, otherwise you will be disappointed - because I have no obligation to fulfill your expectations in any way. In fact, if I see that there are some expectations, I do things DELIBERATELY to destroy those expectations. That is the price you have to pay to be with me.
RajneeshYou feel good, you feel bad, and these feelings are bubbling from your own unconsciousness, from your own past. Nobody is responsible except you. Nobody can make you angry, and nobody can make you happy.
RajneeshWhatever you are doing, don't let past move your mind;don't let future disturb you. Because the past is no more, and the future is not yet.
RajneeshAs your silence grows; your friendliness, your love grows; your life becomes a moment-to-moment dance, a joy, a celebration.
RajneeshThat is the simple secret of happiness. Whatever you are doing, donโt let past move your mind; donโt let future disturb you. Because the past is no more, and the future is not yet. To live in the memories, to live in the imagination, is to live in the non-existential. And when you are living in the non-existential, you are missing that which is existential. Naturally you will be miserable, because you will miss your whole life.
Rajneesh