This is what meditation is all about, just becoming a watcher. Failure comes, success comes, you are praised, you are condemned, you are respected, you are insulted - all kinds of things come, they are all dualities. And you go on watching. Watching the duality, a third force arises in you; a third dimension arises in you. The duality means two dimensions: one dimension is happiness; another is unhappiness. Watching both, a depth arises in you: the third dimension, witnessing, sakshin.
RajneeshDrop the idea that attachment and love are one thing. They are enemies. It is attachment that destroys all love.
RajneeshAnger will come and go and the watcher abides. Sadness comes and passes by and the witness remains
RajneeshMind is a door that leads you outside in the world; meditation is the door that leads you to your interiority - to the very innermost shrine of your being.
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