Nature forever puts a premium on reality. What is done for effect is seen to be done for effect; what is done for love is felt to be done for love. A man inspires affection and honor because he was not lying in wait for these.
Ralph Waldo EmersonBut when you have chosen your part, abide by it, and do not weakly try to reconcile yourself with the world.
Ralph Waldo EmersonIn the history of the individual is always an account of his condition, and he knows himself to be a party to his present estate.
Ralph Waldo EmersonWe do not quite forgive a giver. The hand that feeds us is in some danger of being bitten. We can receive anything from love, forthat is a way of receiving it from ourselves; but not from any one who assumes to bestow. We sometimes hate the meat which we eat, because there seems something of degrading dependence in living it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson