If your friend has displeased you, you shall not sit down to consider it, for he has already lost all memory of the passage, and has doubled his power to serve you, and, ere you can rise up again, will burden you with blessings.
Ralph Waldo EmersonPain is superficial, and therefore fear is. The torments of martyrdoms are probably most keenly felt by the by-standers.
Ralph Waldo Emerson