Give no bounties: make equal laws: secure life and prosperity and you need not give alms.
Ralph Waldo EmersonAlthough this garrulity of advising is born with us, I confess that life is rather a subject of wonder, than of didactics. So muchfate, so much irresistible dictation from temperament and unknown inspiration enter into it, that we doubt we can say anything out of our own experience whereby to help each other.
Ralph Waldo Emerson